De Botton, A. (1993). Essays in Love. London: Flamingo.
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De Botton begins by arguing that our modern understanding of romantic love is based on a series of illusions. We tend to believe that romantic love is a spontaneous and all-consuming feeling that arises from a deep emotional connection with another person. However, de Botton contends that this view of love is largely a product of literary and cultural tradition, rather than a realistic reflection of human experience. He suggests that our expectations of romantic love are often unrealistic and that we are doomed to be disappointed by the inevitable gap between our idealized vision of love and the messy reality of relationships. De Botton, A