The Earnest: Committee Chair
So the next time you sit in a committee meeting, look at the chair. They are probably tired. They are probably underappreciated. And if they are truly earnest—not controlling, not naive, but sincerely devoted to the slow, hard work of us —thank them. Then pass a motion to adjourn early. They’ve earned it.
The great ECC learns that earnestness without grace becomes tyranny, and that process without compassion is just machinery. They learn to hold two truths at once: the rules matter deeply, and people matter more. They learn to laugh at the absurdity of it all—the parliamentary battles over the color of the flyer, the 90-minute debate on the punctuation of a mission statement—without ever ceasing to believe that the work matters. the earnest committee chair
Conversely, their failures are spectacularly visible. If the Zoom link breaks, it is their fault. If the vote is tied, they are accused of poor facilitation. If they try to move a stalled initiative forward, they are labeled “overbearing.” They exist in a perpetual double-bind: do too little, and the committee drifts; do too much, and they are a martinet. So the next time you sit in a
Worse, the ECC can become a . Knowing the rules better than anyone, they can wield procedure as a weapon against those they find insufficiently serious. “I’m sorry, that point is not germane under Article IV, Section 2.” The tone is polite. The effect is suffocation. The deepest shadow of earnestness is the belief that procedural purity is a moral substitute for actual courage. And if they are truly earnest—not controlling, not
However, this places a heavy burden of integrity on the chair. They must be hyper-aware of their own biases. An earnest chair who is "sincerely wrong" can lead a committee down a path of well-intentioned failure. Therefore, the best earnest chairs are also the most intellectually humble, constantly seeking out data that might challenge their sincerely held beliefs. The Legacy of Sincere Leadership